2 weeks ago, aku pegi wedding one of my best friend, Ina. She's married to a guy known for several yrs since uni days. Aku interview Ina pasal wedding preparation dia. Terkejut gile bila Ina kata dia prepare almost everything dgn titik peluh dia & also her own $$ too...Wow! I really admired her gutso..It's not Ina's parents didnt contribute, but she was really determined to do everything on her own. How did she managed to put aside RM 10K ++ for her wedding? Itupun Ina kata tak cukup 10K & last minit overbudget plak..Ina start simpan duit kawin for almost 2yrs & dia sanggup tahan nafsu beli baju or shopping just nak simpan duit. Kalu aku? Hmm..sorry naik lori..aku rasa bila aku kawin nanti confirm parents aku contribute 75% of the wedding preparation & stuffs..Aku boros kalu habis duit kat baju, kasut, handbag..once a while abis duit kat entertainment mcm karaoke, boling, wayang & stuffs. Tapi bila fikir balik, pakai duit sendiri utk majlis kawin mmg menyeronokan & mungkin satu kepuasan. Agaknya sbb apa ek? Meh aku list down sbb2 nya:-
i) Xmo menyusahkan parents / meringankan beban parents
ii) Self-satisfaction (with no money back guaranteed..betul x?)
iii) Buktikan pada pasangan masing2 yg kita mampu & berduit
iv) Xmo berhutang ngan sesapa (ada org pinjam loan kat bank..pastu nak bayau satu hal plak +interest)
v) Bila spending kita akan cuba berjimat & x overbudget (bagus la bagi mrk yg penjimat ni)
vi) Appreciate every single penny spend & feel thankful that we still have money compared to the less fortunate
I guess tuje sebab musabab yg reasonable dlm otak aku..anybody wants to share opinion?
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A wedding ceremony does not have to be soooo grand. It's all about moderation u know. If Malaysian are sensible enough, there wouldn't be so much problem of couple having financial difficulties with wedding arrangements. I salute ur friend for her effort but isn't it the responsibilty of the man to take care of the expenses. Here lies the bigger problem. Not many young guys are responsible enough to save for a rainyday....
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